Santa Clara County BDSM Scene

Web sites: (details of all events can be found on one or both of these sites)

Local Organizations:

Munches/Socials:

Events are on hiatus or are virtual during the shelter in place order - Please see erobay or Fetlife for updated meeting information

  • Every Wednesday - “Palo Alto” Munch - www.themunch.org – Denny’s downtown Sunnyvale
  • Every Thursday – Renegades Wet Munch (no food, 21+, newbie social 1st Thursday) – San Jose
  • Every Friday – The Friday Munch – Denny's El Camino Real at Lawrence Expressway - Santa Clara
  • 1st Sunday – Provert’s Munch – Denny’s North 1st St, San Jose
  • 1st and 3rd Sunday – South Bay TNG Caffeine Munch [18-35] – San Jose
  • 1st Monday – smOdyssey Munch –  San Jose
  • 1st Tuesday – Suits, Heals and Scotch – San Jose
  • 1st Friday – SCCLA Bar Schmooze – Renegades, San Jose
  • 2nd Tuesday – South Bay Munch – Holder’s Country Inn, Cupertino
  • 3rd Sunday - Mos Eisley Brunch - 7 Stars Bar and Grill - 398 S. Bascom Ave., San Jose 
  • 3rd Monday – Stampede Animal Role Play Munch – Santa Clara
  • 3rd Saturday – BBW and Their Admirers – Milpitas
  • 4th Tuesday – Cigar and Boots Social – Renegades, San Jose
  • 5th Monday – Silicon Valley FemDom/masculine sub Munch – San Jose

Discussion Groups:

  • 1st Sunday – MAsT SCC open meeting – Holder's Country Inn, Cupertino
  • 2nd Sunday – smOdyssey Cover to Cover – a Literary Discussion Group – San Jose
  • 2nd Sunday – smOdyssey D/s in the Middle Discussion Group - San Jose

Annual Events:

  • April - IMsL (International Ms Leather) – www.imsl.org – San Jose
  • November – Dark Odyssey: Surrender – darkodyssey.com – San Jose